Modern-day dilemma -- Role Chaos : The Myth of the roleless marriage -- Why the roleless marriage won't work -- Reflections of the traditional family -- Roleless chaos of another day -- Paul's fresh alternative -- Still searching for the Biblical ideal -- The Husband's Core Role : The High calling of headship -- Lording leader, or serving leader? -- Twenty-five ways to be a servant-leader -- The Husband's Core Concerns : Feminine understanding -- What every wife needs to succeed -- The Wife's Core Role : What's a woman to choose? -- Husband-lover/child-lover. The Wife's Core Concerns : Getting into a man's mind -- What every wife needs to know about her husband -- What every husband needs to succeed -- What else a husband needs to succeed -- Ressponses That Energize the Roles : the "S" word -- The Masculine counterpart to the "S" word -- Problems and Solutions : "Helper" doesn't mean "enabler" -- The Church : a refuge for women -- Church intervention : a case study -- Common "head"- aches -- Is there hope for the headless marriage? -- Practical Applicaions : Forget-me-nots -- Dual income perspectives -- Seasons of life -- Gifting your child's marriage -- The Spirit to succeed -- New life for your marriage!