TY - BOOK AU - Cohen, Richard TI - Gay Children, Straight Parents : : A Plan for Family Healing SN - 97808308343720830834370 AV - BV4529 .C57 2007 PY - 2007/// CY - Downers Grove, Ill. : PB - IVP Books, KW - Parent and child—Religious aspects—Christianity.Sexual orientation N1 - Personal healing -- Step one: take care of yourself -- Step two: do your own work -- Step three: experience God's love -- Relational healing -- Step four: investigate the causes of SSA -- Step five: utilize effective communication skills -- Step six: make things right between you and your SSA child -- Step seven: discover your child's love language -- Step eight: same-sex parent, display appropriate physical affection -- Step nine: opposite-sex parent, take two steps back -- Community healing -- Step ten: create a welcoming environment in your home, place of worship, and community -- Step eleven: boyfriends, girlfriends, ceremonies and sleepovers -- Step twelve: find mentors and mentor others ER -