TY  - BOOK
AU  - Cloud, Henry 
AU  - Townsend, John 
TI  - Boundaries Face to Face : : How to Have that Difficult Conversation You've been Avoiding 
SN  - 97803102553380310255333
AV  - BV4597.53.C58  .C59 2003
PY  - 2003///
CY  - Grand Rapids, Mich. : 
PB  - Zondervan
KW  - Conflict management Religious aspects Christianity.Conversation Religious aspects Christianity.Interpersonal conflict Religious aspects Christianity
N1  - Part I : why you need to have that difficult conversation -- The conversation can change your life -- The benefits of a good conversation -- Part II : the essentials of a good conversation -- Be emotionally present -- Be clear about "you" and "I" -- Clarify the problem -- Balance grace and truth -- Stay on task -- Use the formula, when you do "a," I feel "b" -- Affirm and validate -- Apologize for your part in the problem -- Avoid "shoulds" -- Be an agent for change -- Be specific -- Differentiate between forgiving and trusting -- Part III : seeing how it's done -- Telling people what you want -- Making someone aware of something -- Stopping a behavior -- Dealing with counterattack and other problems -- Part IV : getting ready to have the conversation -- Why you need to get ready -- How to get ready -- Part V : having the conversation with people in your life -- With your spouse -- With someone you're dating -- With your kids -- With your parents -- With your adult children -- At work -- With people in authority
ER  -