01841nam a2200157Ia 4500008004100000020002800041041000800069050002500077100001800102245013300120260005300253300002900306490002400335505121600359650010801575231116s9999    xx            000 0 und d  a97815617946451561794643  aeng  aBV4597.6 b.H35 1996  aHall, Laurie  3aAn Affair of the Mind : bOne Woman's Courageous Battle to Salvage Her Family from the Devastation of Pornography /cLaurie Hall  aWheaton, IL. : bTyndale House Publishers,c1996  axiv, 268 p. b; c22 cm.  aFocus on the Family  aPart One: Victims of a victimless crime -- My story -- This is not a fairy tale -- Up close and personal -- The great adventure begins -- The uncovering -- Used up and wasted -- Part Two: An affair of the mind -- how pornography destroys the spirit of a marriage -- What's the big deal? -- I take this woman -- Can't get no satisfaction -- An affair of the mind -- The girl of his dreams -- Let me entertain me -- Liar, liar, house afire -- Part Three: This is war, and there's no neutral ground -- how to survive the devastation -- The ground rules of engagement -- Learning how to get direction from God -- Telling yourself the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth -- Get real -- Let your conscience be your guide -- Dejunking your conscience -- Finding peace in the midst of the storm -- Upping the ante -- Becoming faith full -- Part Four: A little mop-up action -- Some final skirmishes and what to do with all the rubble -- Those flaming arrows -- help! I've been robbed -- Clearing out the rubble to make room for the joy -- Pushing past the pain -- A word from the battlefront -- Appendix A: Characteristics of an adult child from a dysfunctional home -- Appendix B: Annotated bibliography.  aPornography Religious aspects Christianity.Marriage Religious aspects Christianity.Men Sexual behavior.